When you learn to focus on the heart of the matter, the drama in your life will begin to fade. With an eye toward what matters most you can simplify your life and do away with all the stress. Focus on the feeling that you want to cultivate. Choose the specific message that you want to share. Only keep the things that have true meaning to you and improve your life.
Simplify. Reduce. Streamline.
Become a minimalist in terms of excess drama. Stay in touch with your heart and follow the path of least resistance.