The best way to deliberately create the outcomes you want is by lessening your focus on the outcome.
Life naturally causes you to clarify your preferences. You don’t have to remember that you would prefer to feel connection rather than isolation. You don’t have to hold in your mind the types of food you most enjoy. You don’t have to make a note about who you like to spend time with. Trust that your desired outcomes in life are already clear and known.
The first step in the process of creating the outcomes you desire is to cultivate the feeling of what you want. However, sometimes focusing too hard on a specific outcome will cause you to feel the opposite of what you want to feel because, by looking at the seeming chasm between where you stand and what you want, you will feel tension and discord that you are not where you want to be. Worse, you can’t figure out how to get from here to there – it seems impossible.
One way to ease that tension is to soften your focus on the specifics of what you want and instead focus on how you are hoping that outcome will make you feel. Without trying, when you focus on the feeling, you lay the groundwork to build a bridge across the chasm of desire. By feeling your way into alignment with what you desire, you prepare yourself for inspiration.
The next step in the creative process is a thought that comes to you because of your emotional vibration and the desires that you set into motion. You will get an idea. Inspiration will strike. Your prayers are often answered in the form of a thought. While you may not see the connection between the idea and the desired outcome, nothing happens randomly.
This is when it becomes even more important to stop focusing on the outcome and instead focus on the process of making things happen. It is up to you to take the necessary actions that will turn that thought into things. Setting the emotional stage brings you to a vibrational way of being that allows the blueprint for a bridge across the chasm of desire to dawn on you. You can’t stop there. You have to build the bridge.
Focus on what you need to do next – step by step – to bring to life the inspiration that you have received. It is up to you to work diligently every day to continue perfecting your craft. You have to do the work by focusing on your power in the moment rather than what you hope to get out of it in the end.
- Set the emotional stage to be a vibrational match to that which you desire.
- Quiet your mind and receive the inspiration that is in alignment with how you most want to feel.
- Take action with baby steps in the right direction.
One of the best tools to help you create the life you most desire is a daily meditation practice. Spend just 15 minutes in the morning and you will start receiving more of your desired outcomes. Want help with your meditation practice? Check out the Sacred Soul Mediation Series and learn to follow your heart and the wisdom of your soul to courageously welcome all that you desire into your life.